How to Navigate That Low-Level Frustration of Saturn in Aries
Have you noticed you’ve been just a little more irritable than usual? Not full-blown anger — more like a quiet, persistent frustration that seems to follow you everywhere, as if nothing is quite going your way. If that’s been your vibe lately, you’re not alone. For me, this feeling has been hanging around ever since Saturn moved into Aries on Sunday, May 25.
For a deep dive on Saturn in Aries, check out my YouTube video on the topic! In this blog post, we’ll zoom in on why this global transit might be stirring up this simmering sense of frustration — and, more importantly, how to move through it. We’ve got two years of this placement ahead of us, and I don’t know about you… but I’m not planning to carry this feeling around the whole time!
The Cosmic Culprit: Saturn in Aries
Saturn in Aries is a tense pairing. Aries wants fast, fiery action — quick hits of momentum and instant results. Saturn, on the other hand, slows things down. It values long-term effort, structure, and discipline. Think: one foot on the gas, one on the brake.
The result in real life? Curveballs. Delays. Detours. A sense that nothing’s flowing quite the way you want it to. It can feel like the universe is constantly testing your patience — and your determination.
The trickiest part? Our minds love to latch onto this. And when we do, we start to match the vibration of struggle… which only draws more struggle into our lives.
Here are 7 ways to pass Saturn’s test — and reclaim your peace in the process.
1. Find Gratitude in the Detours
When things don’t go to plan, try looking for something — anything — to be grateful for in the moment. It doesn’t have to be big. In fact, it’s often easier (and more grounding) when it’s small.
Case in point: The day after Saturn entered Aries, I set out on what should’ve been a quick 30-minute errand… only to end up in a 2-hour traffic nightmare due to road closures and incorrect online info. Classic, right?
I felt the irritation rising — hard. But I challenged myself to find some beauty along the way. I noticed blooming flowers on balconies. A cat sunbathing on a garden wall. A tiny park I’d never seen before.
Did it magically make the frustration disappear? No. But it softened the edge — and pulled me out of the negativity spiral.
When you catch yourself slipping into irritation, pause. Breathe. Bonus points for a few rounds of box breathing — or even better, some dramatic sighs. Then find one thing to appreciate. It’s a total nervous system reset.
2. Use It to Practice Forgiveness
Forgiveness is one of the most powerful tools for human growth. It’s central to nearly every spiritual tradition — and modern science backs it too. Studies show it can reduce blood pressure, lower anxiety, and improve mental clarity.
That said, forgiveness isn’t always easy — especially when we think about the big stuff: trauma, injustice, betrayal. These take time, sometimes even decades.
Let’s be clear: forgiveness isn’t about excusing someone’s actions. It’s not about saying what happened was okay. It’s not for them. It’s for you — your peace, your healing, your freedom. It’s about letting go of the emotional weight and the energetic bonds that keep you tethered to the pain.
And here’s the thing: if you’re new to forgiveness, you need to start somewhere. That annoying barista who got your order wrong? Forgive them. The person who cut you off in traffic? Them too. The postal service that lost your package? You get the idea.
Over time, this builds emotional resilience. You become like Teflon. The little stuff just slides right off.
3. Ask Yourself: Is This Suppressed Anger?
Mars and Aries rule healthy, assertive anger — the kind that flares up, gets expressed, and then dissolves. But Saturn? Not so much. Saturn prefers to bottle it all up — and pretend everything’s fine.
Unacknowledged anger has a way of leaking out sideways. It can show up as random outbursts, sharp words, tension in the body, or even illness.
If you’ve been unusually on edge, ask yourself:
- What am I really angry about that I haven’t admitted yet?
- Is this about this situation… or is something deeper being triggered?
You don’t have to figure it all out right away. Try journaling, voice-noting, or even just having an honest conversation with yourself. You might be surprised what comes up.
4. Move Your Body with Intention
Aries rules movement, action, and vitality. So if frustration is bubbling, physical activity can help you process it.
Go for a brisk walk. Hit a boxing class. Stretch it out on your yoga mat. Move your body — and breathe while you do it.
No time? Just shake out your limbs for a minute to reset your nervous system.
One note: Be mindful with risky activities. Saturn in Aries can bring reckless energy, and a split-second decision can have long-term consequences. Choose movement that grounds and centres you.
5. Create Micro-Wins
Saturn wants structure. Aries wants speed. The key? Stack small wins.
Break big tasks into tiny, finishable steps. This satisfies Aries’ urge for immediate action and gives Saturn its beloved long-term consistency.
It also builds confidence. In a week full of chaos, finishing something small reminds your brain: Yes, things can go right.
6. Simplify Your Morning Ritual
Morning routines are great — until they become another impossible to-do list you face with a sense of mild dread.
With Saturn in Aries, there’s a tug-of-war between structure and urgency. Aries wants to leap into the day. Saturn wants ritual and consistency.
The solution? Pick three simple habits that help you feel grounded. Commit five minutes to each. That’s it.
Breathe. Stretch. Make tea. Journal a few lines. Whatever works for you. Keep it doable. Make it yours.
7. Get Curious About the Resistance
This was the breakthrough for me.
When the frustration peaked, I asked: What is this trying to teach me about myself?
No angels descended with answers. (Sadly.) But my subconscious got to work — and a few hours later, a conversation revealed the exact insight I needed.
Saturn restricts to redirect. He blocks us when we’re off-path — even if we can’t see why right away.
Ask yourself: Am I forcing something that’s not aligned? Am I trying to make it happen in the wrong way — or at the wrong time?
Stay open. The answer might surprise you.
Final Thoughts
Saturn in Aries isn’t here to kill your vibe. It’s here to make you stronger. To help you align with your real desires — not just your impulses.
You don’t need to fight this energy. You just need to get curious.
Let it show you the gaps between your vision and your reality. Let it guide you to take ownership of your path. It may not feel graceful in the moment… but if you stay open and self-aware, this could be one of the most empowering chapters of your life.